If he’s from the egotistical stable, he’s likely to want to prove you wrong. Tell him you don’t give a shit about him. You will possibly become part of a narcissistic harem. He will make contact as and when he needs you. Hang about on the fringes, sending smoke signals that you’re ready and waiting. When someone knows how badly you want them, sometimes it’s as good as having you. However, depending on how shady or egotistical he is, he might not feel the need to reach out, yet. Highly likely to be for a shag and/or ego stroke. Or, you make a big point of reiterating how you don’t want to lose him and how you want to stay in touch. However, if it was intense, he’ll probably make you wait a while as he may be nervous about your emotions. He’ll probably get in touch for a shag and an ego stroke. Or to try to get back in control… and then disappear. If he does try, it’s probably for an ego stroke or a shag. This means he’s likely to resist or be hesitant about making a comeback. Had the brass balls to see him for what he is and tell him to jog on. You are in the driving seat of this way more than you realise. Whether or not he gets in touch depends a great deal on you. If he’s of the Mr Unavailable and assclown variety and hasn’t seen the error of his ways, his overblown ego, total disconnect and often selfish, using ways, means that he’s likely to make contact at some point. It may not be today, it may not be tomorrow, it may not even be this year or even twenty years. But let’s answer the big question: Will he try to get in contact with you? They may not even call they might skip straight to text, instant messenger or email! If you fall into the trap of believing that his actions mean way more than they actually do, you’re so excited about him getting in touch and back into betting on potential mode, that you fail to see his actions for what they are. To add insult to injury, Mr Unavailables and assclowns are lazy. What we consider is what we believe a man getting back in touch means: He wants me/He wants to get back together/He misses me/He regrets his actions. Don’t think about before when he was a dickhead and messing us around.Focus on the act itself (him getting in touch).Now, like a lot of things in shady relationships, obsessing over the “What ifs” of this question is a reflection of Women Who Talk and Think Too Much syndrome and not seeing the wood for the trees. In reality, they’re being used for a shag and/or an ego stroke.īut… Fallback Girls and assclown lovers are obsessed with the big question: Will he try to get in contact with me? Just ask the millions of women out there that are secretly hoping for their ex to suddenly see them for the great people they are so they can have their fairy-tale ending. Even when you don’t have to get medieval on the person and cut contact, I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it a million times again: this whole staying in touch and trying to be friends after you’ve broken up is bullshit. I’m a huge advocate for using the No Contact Rule on men (and women) that just seem to have an allergy to breaking up and making a clean break.
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